Tip 5

Remember, you have absolutely nothing to hide. As long as you've followed the above tips and told her the truth about you she has already seen a lot of pictures of you, meeting in person should be a breeze.

Tip 4

Once the discussion has been started about meeting in person for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her to make her feel more comfortable.

Tip 3

Pictures really are worth a thousand words. Post good, clear photos of yourself along with your online personal ad and include as many pictures of yourself as you feel are necessary. These photos can include you in your everyday activities and not just head shots.

Tip 2

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance, age, and occupation. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, formulated on lies and misconceptions. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and this could end your relationship before it has even begun.

Tip 1

First and foremost, guys must be patient. Don't press any woman for personal information like her address right off the bat. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you on the phone. Until then, chat online via email or IM at your online dating site. Don't try to rush her into meeting face-to-face too soon. She will think you are desperate or be uncomfortable. Patience is a virtue that should be practiced by guys who meet women through internet personals.
 
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